Beyond the Lies is a non-fiction book for the loved ones of people with Substance Use Disorder (SUD). If you have an addicted loved one, you may not realize you are playing a part in a movie. At times it is a horror film. Other times it is a tale of mystery which leaves you puzzled. “Beyond the Lies" gives you the script to the scenes of this movie before you find yourself in them.
Step Behind the Curtain
Find out what’s really going on
with your addicted loved one.
“This describes one of my former relationships so accurately it's chilling.”
Six M. - Medium
What Readers are Saying
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"If you are looking to get sober, are newly sober, need a sobriety refresher like me, or are the loved one of someone stuck in addiction, this book is a must-read."
Michele Maize - Black Bear
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"This should be required Al-Anon reading. It's for the people who continually ask, 'Why does he keep doing this to himself?' or 'Why doesn't he stop?' or 'What's wrong with him, doesn't he get it?' THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU.
Michele K. - Medium
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"Your words were the key to a family member of mine FINALLY understanding that she has been enabling another family member who is an alcoholic, and she is taking major steps to stop the enabling."
Jen D. - Substack
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"So good. I wish it wasn’t!"
Jenn P. - Substack
Inside Beyond the Lies
THIS IS A FACT: If you are the loved one of an addict-alcoholic, you have been chronically subjected to manipulation.
Chapter 5.2: WHY LEARN ABOUT HOW ADDICT/ALCOHOLICS MANIPULATE?
Can you relate to any of these questions?
When it comes to the addict-alcoholic in your life have you ever had feelings of suspicion, confusion, or anger?
When you are around the addict-alcoholic, do you find it hard to relax or that you are on high alert?
Do you have this nagging feeling that things are not what they seem with your addicted loved one, but you don’t say anything?
Did you say something and they scared you off with anger, or came up with some plausible explanation that still didn’t feel right to you but you let it go?
Do you have any of the physical symptoms of chronic manipulation like difficulty sleeping, inability to relax, constant irritability, or you feel exhausted all the time?
Addict-alcoholics are driven to think about using twenty-four hours a day, seven days a week. How can the family and friends compete with that? The answer is that you can’t, no matter how hard you try, and trying will only make you sick too.